Full Disclosure: This blog post is likely going to offend someone out there. If that’s you, and you want to clarify/discuss/yell at me – It’s pretty easy to get in contact with me.
The other day, I came across a guy online dating who I really liked. He was charming, witty and adorable. We discussed boring first dates that we are both fed up with, our jobs and the first things we’d do when we win the lottery. Half way into our hour long discussion, he suggested that we meet up at some point and I was quick to agree that I was up for that.
“Haha OK nmv..how’s your night going”
On OKCupid, it doesn't take long to recognize people that visit your profile constantly. This first message came from someone who, according to my visitor list, never looked at my profile. (Although, not possible since he would have had to in order to send a message.)
"Quit being a bitch."
This message really caught me off guard. My profile has always been well-received, and I don't have the "Responds VERY Selectively" red light of death.